成長しない大人の特徴3選

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生活していると様々な人間と関わると思いますが、そんな中でも成長しない大人の特徴を3つ紹介します。

成長しない大人の特徴

自責の念がない人間

職場などの場面で、失敗やミスを他人の責任であると言っている人を見たことありませんか?
そういった失敗やミスを他人の責任にして、言い逃れをしている人間は成長しません。

理由

なぜなら、自分に全く責任がないと感じていると、失敗やミスから学ぶことをしません。
つまり考えを放棄しているので、同じ失敗やミスを繰り返します。

改善策

現在責任逃れている人間は、自分の責任として物事を考える癖をつけましょう。
そして、同じ失敗やミスを繰り返さないためにも、改善策や対策を考える様にしましょう。

自分を客観視できない人

客観視とは、第3者目線で見ることです。
つまり、他人から見た自分を考えてみることです。
この視点で自分を見れない人は成長できません。

理由

なぜかというと、他人からの視点でみることにより、今の自分の立ち位置を確認し、成長する過程を逆算できるのです。
しかも今の自分の立ち位置が分かって無い人は、思考が偏ります。
偏った思考は他人に嫌われてしまったり、思考を変えていけないので変化の激しい世界についていけなくなります。
つまり、無価値な人間になってしまうので生き残れなくなります。

改善策

上を目指しているなら、常に他人からの視線を考えましょう。
今の自分の立ち位置を常に考える癖をつけましょう。

行いを正せない人

先述の内容に似かよりますが、自己中心的な行動を正せない人間は成長しません。

理由

というのも、成功者の多くは他人に迷惑をかけていた人間はほぼゼロです。
つまり、成功者の行いの逆を行っている場合、成功者にはなれないということです。

改善策

他人に迷惑や不快感を与える行いは正していきましょう。
単純に自分の行いを他人にされたと考えて、自らが不快感を感じる行いは正しましょう。

まとめ

上記3つをまとめると

  • 失敗やミスを自分の責任と捉えて、改善策を考える
  • 他人に迷惑や不快感を与える行いをしない

ということが大切だということです。

他人に迷惑をかけず、自分のできる改善策をとることが思考を成長させ、成功を掴んでいくことにつながるということです。

皆さんも明日からの行動に生かしてください。

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